As seniors age, they may face physical and cognitive challenges that affect their ability to manage daily tasks independently. Common difficulties include decreased mobility, muscle weakness, and balance issues, which can increase the risk of falls and injuries.

If your parent requires assistance with bathroom activities, it’s important to approach the situation with patience, empathy, and respect for their dignity.

Bathroom Fall Risks

Falls are a significant concern for adults aged 65 and older, being the leading cause of injury and death in this age group. The bathroom is particularly hazardous due to its slippery surfaces and potential obstacles like unsecured bath mats. Getting in and out of the shower can be especially risky, and seniors with incontinence may hurry to the bathroom, increasing their risk of tripping and falling.

If you notice that your parent is becoming unsteady or has experienced recent falls, it may be time to consider professional home care support.

Addressing Embarrassment

Bathroom needs are highly personal, and discussing the need for assistance can be uncomfortable for both you and your parent. Your parent may feel embarrassed about needing help, and it can be challenging for you to see them in such a vulnerable position.

Reassure your parent that needing help doesn’t diminish their dignity and explain the risks of falling. Emphasize that your goal is to ensure their safety and comfort.

Sometimes, having a professional caregiver, such as those from Care Remedy, can be a more comfortable solution than moving to an assisted living facility. A trained caregiver can provide necessary support and help your parent feel less isolated.

Providing Physical Assistance

If it’s unsafe for your parent to use the bathroom alone, either you or a professional caregiver may need to assist them. Allow your parent to do as much as they can on their own to promote their independence.

Here are some tips for helping your parent in the bathroom:

• Avoid rushing: Stay with your parent in the bathroom to ensure their safety. Help them with undressing slowly and encourage their participation.
• Use wet wipes: Wet wipes can be more hygienic than toilet paper. Ensure that wipes are not flushed to prevent clogs.
• Assist with clothing: Help your parent with their clothing to prevent tripping. Opt for clothes with drawstrings or snaps for ease.
• Ensure privacy: Use a towel or cover to maintain privacy while they are undressing or using the toilet. Be cautious not to create tripping hazards.
• Use humor: Lightening the mood with humor can help ease any tension or discomfort.

Adapting the Bathroom Environment

If bathroom use is challenging for your parent, consider making modifications to improve accessibility. Walk-in showers can be easier to use than traditional tubs.

If a full remodel isn’t feasible, simple updates can make a significant difference:

• Install grab bars: These can assist your parent in getting on and off the toilet safely.
• Add nonslip decals: Place these in the shower or tub to reduce slip risks.
• Secure bathmats and shower curtains: Prevent tripping hazards by fixing these items.
• Use night lights: Install lights in the bathroom and hallways to aid navigation.
• Keep essentials within reach: Store toilet paper, wet wipes, and toiletries where they are easily accessible.

Professional Caregiver Support

Your parent may need bathroom assistance at various times throughout the day or night. A professional caregiver can provide ongoing support, allowing you some respite while ensuring your parent’s needs are met. Caregivers can assist with toileting, changing clothes, and bathing.

To explore how Care Remedy can help, contact us for a free consultation at (781) 957-8076